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What To Do First to Make a Profit

The PF Women Team at our Annual Team Retreat  ~ 2018 Today on Seth Godin's blog, he said: It's tempting to decide to make a profit first, then invest in training, people, facilities, promotion, customer service and most of all, doing important work. In general, though, it goes the other way. Yes, it does. If you are waiting to make a profit before you do these things, in my experience you're  not going to make a profit. So many organizations, ministries and churches are struggling with financial issues. I know your pain. As anyone who follows our story knows, our ministry was in a ton of debt four years ago when I came on as director.  Since that time, we've gotten out of debt and turned a profit every year.  God has done amazing things through out team, for which we give Him the glory! I find that what Seth is saying here is absolutely true, with one disclaimer. For Christian leaders, spiritual disciplines must always be first. Before we started i...
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Is Your Marriage Held Hostage By Rickle Rackle?


Larry and I noticed something a long time ago in our relationship. Rarely do we ever argue about issues that involve only the two of us. Most often, we're upset about someone else's issues that touch our lives in some way. The discussion of those problems has the potential to bring us to an impasse. Translation: a knock down drag out argument, minus violence.

Larry calls everything we fight about aside  from things that exclusively concern the two of us, "rickle rackle." It's his own special label for it.

Rickle rackle:
 an argument that would be non-existent if it was required to only be about us with no other person or thing involved.  

Reviewing everything we've ever argued about, we realized that's pretty much...everything.

For us, this was an amazing revelation. When we finally realized that what we fought about had almost nothing to do with the two of us, we were able to see that we were allowing outside forces to pull us apart.

So many times Larry has looked at me and said, "you know babe, this is crazy. It's not even about US. Our relationship is more important than this rickle rackle, so let's let this go, for our sake..."

We've learned to:

Identify rickle rackle.
Focus on what's important.
Refuse to let anyone or anything destroy us.

For some reason I felt like somebody out there just needed to hear this today, so for whatever it's worth...there it is.

Much love,

 
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