The PF Women Team at our Annual Team Retreat ~ 2018 Today on Seth Godin's blog, he said: It's tempting to decide to make a profit first, then invest in training, people, facilities, promotion, customer service and most of all, doing important work. In general, though, it goes the other way. Yes, it does. If you are waiting to make a profit before you do these things, in my experience you're not going to make a profit. So many organizations, ministries and churches are struggling with financial issues. I know your pain. As anyone who follows our story knows, our ministry was in a ton of debt four years ago when I came on as director. Since that time, we've gotten out of debt and turned a profit every year. God has done amazing things through out team, for which we give Him the glory! I find that what Seth is saying here is absolutely true, with one disclaimer. For Christian leaders, spiritual disciplines must always be first. Before we started i...
"That doesn't work for me."
Good. Now say it again, this time with more confidence.
"That doesn't work for me."
No need to be snooty, just calmly repeat:
"That doesn't work for me."
Repeat this line anytime somebody is presenting you with something that is stressing you out needlessly.
Someone recently suggested this response to me and it was an epiphany.
If something doesn't work for me, I don't always have to do it. There are some non-negotiables we all deal with -- necessities for our family or workplace. If you don't keep certain bases covered your family will not survive and neither will your job. Of course we all need to cover those. But I'm talking about non-essentials that are others expectations that they place on you, or ways of doing things that they are pushing on you that stress you out and don't add value to your life or even shorten your life.
Just say, "I'm sorry but that won't work for me" whether it be today, or this week, or right now, or indefinitely. You'll live longer, with much more joy
Good. Now say it again, this time with more confidence.
"That doesn't work for me."
No need to be snooty, just calmly repeat:
"That doesn't work for me."
Repeat this line anytime somebody is presenting you with something that is stressing you out needlessly.
Someone recently suggested this response to me and it was an epiphany.
If something doesn't work for me, I don't always have to do it. There are some non-negotiables we all deal with -- necessities for our family or workplace. If you don't keep certain bases covered your family will not survive and neither will your job. Of course we all need to cover those. But I'm talking about non-essentials that are others expectations that they place on you, or ways of doing things that they are pushing on you that stress you out and don't add value to your life or even shorten your life.
Just say, "I'm sorry but that won't work for me" whether it be today, or this week, or right now, or indefinitely. You'll live longer, with much more joy
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